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Saturday, August 6, 2011

The transformational power of Torah

The transformational power of Torah

Rabbi Yehoishophot Oliver

In the first chapter of the Tanya, the Alter Rebbe describes the various unworthy character traits of the Jew’s Bestial Soul: anger, arrogance, frivolity, depression, laziness, and so on. But then the Alter Rebbe explains that by nature, this soul also possesses certain noble qualities, listing as examples the traits of compassion and the desire to perform deeds of loving-kindness. This is drawn from the Gemara,[1] which states of the Jewish people: “Three signs identify this people: They are merciful, bashful, and they perform deeds of loving-kindness.” But why does the Alter Rebbe omit the quality of bashfulness from his list of traits?

Another question may be asked. The Gemara states: “Why was the Torah given to the Jewish people? Because they are strong-willed.”[2] Rashi comments: “The Torah was given to them so that through consistent study of it, it would weaken the strength [of their evil inclination] and subdue their hearts.” The Gemara then cites the verse, “From His right hand, He presented a fiery law to them,”[3] explaining: “Hashem declared: ‘These people are fit that the fiery law be given to them.’” The Maharsha there explains that because of the Torah’s fiery power, it is fitting for the Torah to be given to them, in order to subdue and humble them. The Gemara then interprets that verse in a different but similar manner: “The nature of these people is fiery, for had the Torah not been given to the nation of Israel, no nation or tongue could withstand them.”

What emerges from this is that since Jews are fiery, audacious, and strong-willed, the fiery energy of the Torah is crucial for them to counter their nature and humble their hearts before Hashem.

So by nature, Jews are very strong-willed—and even more so than non-Jews. (Perhaps this explains the stereotype in the secular world of Jewish chutzpah, insolence.) But, the Maharsha asks,[4] doesn’t this contradict another statement of our Sages stating that Jews possess the quality of shame? He explains that this quality is different from those of loving-kindness and compassion. The Jewish people are not naturally bashful; rather, they acquire this quality by virtue of their consistent Torah study.

Likewise, the Maharsha continues, the verse describes the purpose of the revelation at Mount Sinai: “So that the awe of Him will be on your faces, so that you not sin.”[5] Our Sages explains that “the awe of Him” refers to the quality of being susceptible to shame, which leads to “so that you not sin”—fear of sin.[6] So the awesome phenomenon of the Revelation at Mount Sinai imbued shame before Hashem and fear of sin within the souls of the Jews present, which they then bequeathed to their descendants. This clearly demonstrates that the quality of bashfulness comes to us from the Torah.

This also explains why the Alter Rebbe omits the quality of shame from his list of Jewish traits, for this section of Tanya is devoted to explaining the natural qualities of the Jew’s Bestial Soul. In general, Jews are naturally warm, friendly people. They enjoy doing favors and bestowing hospitality; similarly, they cannot bear to see others in pain, and so they strive to care for the needy, destitute, and downtrodden. Since these feelings comes naturally for a Jew, he or she will typically act in this way even if, for whatever unfortunate reason, he or she is not yet Torah-observant, or is significantly lacking in observance.

Bashfulness, however, which is related to tznius (modesty) may not come naturally to a Jew. On the contrary, by nature Jews are even more chutzpah’dik (insolent) than non-Jews, as mentioned. However, through devotion to Torah, a Jew subdues his Bestial Soul. Then not only will he not behave insolently, but on the contrary, he will rise to a far more advanced level of shame and modesty than non-Jews.

It should be noted that although women are exempt from studying Torah to the degree required of men, Torah will also subdue their evil inclinations:

a. When they study topics in Torah relevant to them, as Jewish law requires of them;[7]

b. When they encourage their menfolk to learn Torah, as the Gemara states: “How do women acquire the merit of Torah? By bringing their sons to school to learn Torah and by allowing their husbands to learn in the Beis Midrash, and waiting for them to come home.”[8]

Likewise, it appears that although all Jews are obligated to fix times for Torah study, baalei esek, those who must be involved in the world in order to earn their livelihood, have a portion in Torah, which helps them subdue their evil inclinations, by supporting Torah scholars.

This awareness of the awesome power of Torah study to keep us “on the straight and narrow” should dramatically change the way we view Torah study. Torah study is not some kind of spiritual luxury, a noble deed, and an act of selfless love and devotion for Hashem. Torah study is the medication for the evil inclination, as the Gemara says, “If this vile one encounters you, drag him to the Beis Medrash [house of Torah study].”[9]

In summary, when the Gemara states that the Jewish people possess the quality of shame and modesty, it is referring to a potential. The intense experience of the Revelation at Sinai imbued within the Bestial Soul of a Jew the potential for consistent Torah study to transform his personality, such that he will excel in shame, modesty, and bittul (submissiveness) before Hashem.

May we all merit that this potential reach full fulfillment within us, and may we succeed at influencing our fellow Jews who need it to do likewise.

Based on Igros Kodesh, Vol. 3, pp. 9-10.

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[1] Yevamos 79a.
[2] Beitzah 25b.
[3] Devarim 33:2.
[4] Chiddushei Aggados on Yevamos ibid.
[5] Shemos 20:17.
[6] Nedarim 20a.
[7] See The Laws of Torah Study in Shulchan Aruch Admur HaZaken, ch. 2.
[8] Berachos 17b.
[9] Kiddushin 15a.


This post was dedicated by Reb Kasriel ben Yehudis and Chana Feige bas Reizl (my parents, tzu langeh, gezunteh, zisseh yoren) in honor of their 36th wedding anniversary. This post was also dedicated by Reb Menachem Kovacs, who requested that this message be attached:
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Sunday, June 27, 2010

The Secret of the Alter Rebbe's Greatness

The Secret of the Alter Rebbe's Greatness

Rabbi Yehoishophot Oliver


Reb Yehuda Chitrik, a”h,  related:
The chassidim once asked the Maharil, Reb Yehuda Leib of Yanovitch, the brother of the Alter Rebbe, “Why did your parents merit children of such great stature in Torah—first the Alter Rebbe, then you, and then your brothers Reb Mordechai and Reb Moishe?”


Reb Yehuda Leib answered: “This was all in the merit of our mother, who was a fine Jewish woman, with the qualities of love of Torah, and fear of Heaven. Here is an example of her good, upstanding deeds:


“Our father, Reb Boruch, was a businessman. Once his business travels required him to travel out of Russia and remain there for a while. When he returned home, he brought our mother a gift known as a ratanda [a certain kind of upper garment that was very costly]. After some time passed, my mother sensed worry and dejection on the face of the teacher who would teach us in our house. She discovered that he was not teaching us in a lively, enthusiastic manner, as he always would.


“My mother asked the teacher, ‘Why aren’t you teaching my sons with liveliness and joy? What is worrying you?’ The teacher responded, ‘My wife has been tormenting me lately, complaining to me, “See, Reb Boruch brought his wife a ratanda as a gift—why don’t you bring me gifts?”’ My mother immediately went to the cupboard, took out the ratanda, and gave it to the teacher, saying, ‘Give this to your wife so that she will no longer give you a hard time with her complaints. The main thing is that you shouldn’t be troubled, and you should be able to learn with my sons with liveliness and joy.’”


Reshimos Devorim, Vol. 1, p. 73.
When the Alter Rebbe’s mother, the Rebbetzin Rivka, saw that her children’s teacher was lacking enthusiasm, she was so concerned that this might detract from the enthusiasm of her children for their studies that she eagerly gave away an expensive garment that she had received as a gift from her husband in order ensure that her children would maintain their studies at the highest level.


It is noteworthy that although the Maharil’s father Reb Boruch was a great Torah scholar, and in fact one of the hidden Tzaddikim, as explained in the writings of the Previous Rebbe, the Maharil did not attribute the greatness of Reb Boruch’s progeny to the scholarship and diligent study of their father, but to the love of Torah and self-sacrifice for Torah exhibited by their mother. Thus, this story demonstrates how the key role in imbuing love of Torah within children lies in the hands of the mother.

Sunday, January 25, 2009

"Seeing" G–dliness through feminine aid

For those who doubt the tremendous degree of respect that the Chassidic path (in addition to that of earlier rabbinic sources) holds for womenfolk, please read this:
My father-in-law, the [Previous] Rebbe, related the following episode:[1]

It once happened that as the Alter Rebbe was leaving his room, he heard his wife, the Rebbetzin, talking with several women, and saying about him, “mine says.”[2]

It is written in the holy books that a woman should not refer to her husband by name, out of respect.[3] This would hold true all the more concerning the Alter Rebbe, who was a Nasi [leader] of the Jewish people. Therefore his wife did not refer to him by name, but said “mine.”

The Alter Rebbe said—in a melody, as was his custom—“If I am yours with one Mitzvah, with how many Mitzvos am I Hashem’s?” He leaned on the doorway, and entered a state of deep, trancelike concentration.

When he emerged from his meditative state, he declared:

[It is written], “Go out and see, O daughters of Tzion, king Shlomo.”[4] Through the daughters of Tzion [i.e., Jewish women], one is able to “go out” of the limitation of one’s vessel, and “see” G–dliness (which is represented by “king Shlomo,” which alludes to “the King who possesses peace [i.e., Hashem]”[5]).

We can explain this by connecting it with the statement of my father-in-law, the [Previous] Rebbe, concerning his father, the Rebbe Rashab, that when the Rebbe Rashab witnessed a particular event, although others had witnessed it as well, he would explain its lesson in the service of Hashem.

The reason for this is that Chassidus teaches us to extract the inner aspect of everything, even something simple, and derive a lesson from it in one’s service of Hashem.

Thus, it is not surprising that one word that the Alter Rebbe heard from his wife, the Rebbetzin, led to the addition of new concepts in Chassidic philosophy, in Chassidic melodies, and in the service of Hashem.

Toras Menachem, Vol. 7, pp. 274-275.



[1] HaYom Yom 23 Shevat.
[2] A Yiddish idiom by which to refer to one’s family member.
[3] Cf. Darkei Chaim VeShalom, sec. 1063.
[4] Shir HaShirim 3:11.
[5] Shir HaShirim Rabba 1:1.
Comment: This story has to be the most powerful statement concerning the positive impact that a wife can have on her husband that I’ve seen.

The Talmud says (Yevamos 62b) that one’s wife brings her husband joy, blessing, goodness, Torah, protection from sin, and peace. These are all tremendously valuable things, of course.

However, the Alter Rebbe says in Tanya here that the core of all one’s divine service is to come to “see” G–dliness. I.e., this is at the core of everything else, necessary as all those other elements may be. And according to the above story, the ability to attain this is granted by one’s wife.


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